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Why Explicit Stories? The Answer isn’t Easy

Karin Kallmaker 06/07/2006 18th and Castro, All the Wrong Places, Craft of Writing, Finders Keepers

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Why all the explicit activities and accessories? As I prepare for the panel on “True Lust” for GCLS 2006, I find myself confronted with that question and the many layers of the answer. Read More

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When It’s Not About You

Karin Kallmaker 05/22/2006 Craft of Writing, Readers and Libraries

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Question posed by another writer who was berated by a reader for portraying lesbians in her novel as violent: What do you do about e-mail from a judgmental or passive-aggressive reader whose issues don’t seem relevant to your work? Read More

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Q Syndicate – Interview by Joy Parks

Karin Kallmaker 05/05/2006 Castle Wrath, Events and Appearances

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Joy Parks of Q Syndicate asked me a lot of great questions. Read More

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Should You? Using Song Lyrics in Fiction

Karin Kallmaker 05/02/2006 Craft of Writing

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Song lyrics, combined with music, have the power to move our booties, exorcise demons, uplift our spirit and add poetry into any moment of our daily lives. It’s a natural inclination to refer to, quote from and honor words of others that move us. Frequently, then, the question comes up: can I quote song lyrics in my story? Read More

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Based on Actual Events or People – Are There Issues?

Karin Kallmaker 03/24/2006 Craft of Writing

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Question from a New Writer

How careful does a writer have to be when using real people or events in their lives in a story?

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