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Home Blog POST TOPICS Craft of Writing

The Craft of Writing and Writer Self-Care

These posts by Karin Kallmaker cover practical topics for sapphic writers, as well as advice for writer self-care in difficult times.

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What Romance Writers Actually Do

Karin Kallmaker 02/12/2012 Craft of Writing, Favorite Things

My take on the “What We Actually Do” meme for Romance Writers.

#amwriting#lesfic#mylesbianfreespeech#romancewriterLesbian Romance

Roller Coaster – Before and After the Self-Edit

Karin Kallmaker 07/10/2011 Craft of Writing, Roller Coaster

What the editor will focus on, I hope, is if this scene is where the book should begin. For this book, choosing the opening has been the single most important decision I’ve had to make, and I’ve agonized.

#amediting#practicepracticepractice
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Two Weeks for Self-Doubt

Karin Kallmaker 05/01/2010 Craft of Writing

How can something that happens with every book always come as a surprise? Even in the throes of self-doubt I don’t recognize it.

#writeradviceWriter Self-Care
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Is it Six Thirty? Nine Fifteen?

Karin Kallmaker 02/09/2010 Craft of Writing

This seems to me close to my personal rule, “If I read it aloud and pause, that’s where the comma goes.” This after years of being told that was not how to do things.

#grammarpolice#stopchangingtherules
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Reality is Not Reality TV

Karin Kallmaker 09/14/2009 Craft of Writing, LIFE + STYLE, Readers and Libraries

Just because I have the passionate commitment about writing to put a story on the page doesn’t mean I have a right to the passionate commitment of others, let alone their money and time. I have to earn it and work to keep it.

#civilitycounts#mylesbianfreespeech#ReadersareEarned
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    Auntie Mame is one of Karin's favorite movies, and it was pre-ordained when actress-of-a-certain-age Helen Baynor (Roller Coaster) needed a signature role, Mame would be it. "Après moi, le déluge!"

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Sapphic holiday romances by Karin Kallmaker

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Random Shiny Things

  • All the Wrong Places at Loving Venus – Loving Mars
    ...Halfway through I’m really dying for two people to get together...
  • The Subtle Liberation of Irene C – Wind in Her Hair
    I loved the big nod to the early pioneers of lesbian fiction Ann Bannon and Marijane Meaker who were beacons to those searching for more.
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