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Home Blog POST TOPICS Craft of Writing

The Craft of Writing and Writer Self-Care

These posts by Karin Kallmaker cover practical topics for sapphic writers, as well as advice for writer self-care in difficult times.

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Who’s Serving Who?

Karin Kallmaker 08/30/2009 Craft of Writing

In a well-crafted novel, every character and every scene has to serve the master players: plot, theme or setting. Best if they serve more than one.

#mylesbianfreespeechBob DylanGotta Serve Somebody
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Ellipse. . . How I Loved. . . Thee. . .

Karin Kallmaker 08/23/2009 Book News, Craft of Writing, Embrace in Motion, Painted Moon - First Edition

You would think I would have learned after book four, when I mentioned with admiration a celebrity who turned out to be a double murderer, that pop culture references are usually not essential to my kind of storytelling.

#practicepracticepracticeLesbian Romance
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It’s About Passion – “Julie and Julia” Movie

Karin Kallmaker 08/16/2009 Cheers & Chocolate, Craft of Writing, Readers and Libraries

Julie Powell’s modern experiment and Julia Child’s journey to Mastering the Art of French Cooking are both about the pursuit of joy through passion.

#foodporn#moviereviewJulia Child
cover The Kiss that Counted, Goldie winner medal, Lambda winner medal, by Karin Kallmaker "Full of suspense and mystery, deeply moving characters and storytelling." Lambda Literary Review

Thinking for a Living – and Thankful

Karin Kallmaker 07/31/2009 Awards and Reviews, Craft of Writing, Kiss That Counted

I can blow an entire year’s worth of interesting thoughts in one chapter of a book, which could literally be one day in a character’s life. That means I have to sponge up other people’s interesting thoughts. Fortunately, there are lots of other people. Some of them are even friends.

#limegreenpantiesLesbian Romance
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That Pivotal Moment in Every Love Story

Karin Kallmaker 07/13/2009 Craft of Writing, Stepping Stone

in every romance novel the characters must finally choose love, but all the interim steps toward the essential trust and respect the reader must believe exists are all up to the writer.

#practicepracticepracticeLesbian Romance
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  • Trivia – How was Substitute for Love inspired by Dick?
    The inspiration for the character of Reyna Putnam in Substitute for Love came when Karin watched then candidate Cheney dance around the issues of LGBT rights as if his own daughter's life wouldn't have been improved had he cared enough to spend any of his political capital on her. Who wants to be that guy's flesh-and-blood? What is the price when your needs conflict with his plans?

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    The Dawning is one of those superb novels that are so easy to pick up - and so difficult to put down!
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