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Home Blog POST TOPICS Craft of Writing

The Craft of Writing and Writer Self-Care

These posts by Karin Kallmaker cover practical topics for sapphic writers, as well as advice for writer self-care in difficult times.

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When It’s Not About You

Karin Kallmaker 05/22/2006 Craft of Writing, Readers and Libraries

I mean to stir the reader’s emotions with my work and sometimes I hit nerves I did not intend and are simply not about me at all.

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Should You? Using Song Lyrics in Fiction

Karin Kallmaker 05/02/2006 Craft of Writing

It’s a natural inclination to refer to, quote from and honor words of others that move us. Frequently, then, the question comes up: can I quote song lyrics in my story? To me the legal issues are secondary to the artistic concerns.

#practicepracticepractice#writeradviceLesbian Romance
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Based on Actual Events or People – Are There Issues?

Karin Kallmaker 03/24/2006 Craft of Writing

I like to write characters who are both specifically real and universally meaningful, and who are my own creation.

#WritingislikeCookingLesbian Romance
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Society of Women

Karin Kallmaker 02/10/2006 Craft of Writing

If you love lesbian fiction of all genres, this convention is for you! I’m proud to be a sponsor again this year, and spending time with readers and other writers is great.

#GCLSLesbian Pride
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Might I be so bold as to ask how much sex is enough?

Karin Kallmaker 02/08/2006 Craft of Writing

Whether it’s suds in the shower or yahoo-bucking-bronco sex is determined by the plot and characters.

Lesbian RomanceLesbian Sensuality
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    The Queen of Cups Bookstore (In Every Port) is entirely fictional. The experience of a young closeted woman visiting an out and proud women's bookstore for the first time - not quite so fictional.

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  • Cover, Unbeliever by Karin Kallmaker. Romance, magic, and sisters. Unbeliever - Romance, Magic, and Sisters - eBook $3.99 $3.67

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    The writer has crafted the characters well, and you can't help but empathise with Irene.
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    At times heartbreaking, but overall hopeful, I really loved Darlin’s story and was very pleased with the ending.
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