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The Difference Between Hacking and Spoofing on Facebook and Dealing with Both

Karin Kallmaker LIFE + STYLE 16 Comments

There is significant difference between being hacked and being spoofed (a.k.a. cloned) on Facebook. I often see people in a fear spiral when they don’t need to be, and after explaining the difference numerous times it finally occurred to me I could just do a blog post and then share the URL in the future. The spoofers get less of everybody’s time and attention.*

When Spoofing Has Actually Happened

Discovering someone’s been spoofed begins when a friend realizes something’s not right – they’ve received a friend request from someone they’re pretty darned sure they’re already friends with. The person spoofed doesn’t know unless someone tells them because spoofing / cloning is about fooling the friends, not the person being cloned.

When I get a suspicious friend request like this here’s what I do:

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Infomercials and Act Now Sites, Fraud, and Your Credit Card – Be Cautious!

Karin Kallmaker Above Temptation, LIFE + STYLE 1 Comment

This comes under the heading of Public Service Announcement. Today I saw a rash of unrelated Facebook posts that all complained of similar issues dealing with credit card charges where people bought something from infomercials and fell into a pit of credit card hell.

Perhaps it’s because people bought certain kinds of things during and after the holidays. Only now are the problems becoming apparent – not with the product, but with the company hired by the infomercials (or clickbait websites) to take their money.

Why Am I Telling You All This?

I’ve been asked where I got the details about fraud and banking issues that are covered in Above Temptation. I used to be an accountant and as such, underwent audits by CPAs. They love to tell war stories about fraud and issues they detected. I’m also a late night TV junkie and I watch a lot of infomercials while I’m working. Read More

A Fowl Mood (That Turkey Brine Thing We Do)

Karin Kallmaker Cheers & Chocolate 4 Comments

Update I receive email requests for “that roasted turkey brine thing” I’ve mentioned, so I thought I’d repost this April 2008 entry with the recipe and inspiration for when it’s time to roast the turkey. Plus a link to my wife’s amazing Thanksgiving Day flowchart.

Turkey on the Fence

No doubt others before me have used this fowl pun, and why you may ask am I writing about turkey in April when Thanksgiving is six months away? There’s a turkey sitting on my back fence, that’s why. Plus I love our roast turkey after we’ve taken the time to brine so much, I think about it every four months or so, yearning for Thanksgiving.Read More

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So Many Audiobooks!

Karin Kallmaker Book News 1 Comment

It’s Angela Dawe, Y’all

On October 8 the audiobook of Roller Coaster will become available! Angela’s narration of Touchwood was phenomenal, bringing Louisa to life in that story in a way that matched her voice in my head all these years. So I’m braced for a fantastic rendition of an stage actress facing menopause and a private chef with a personal demon and a bit of a secret.

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Transitions of Joy

Karin Kallmaker LIFE + STYLE 10 Comments

Hey! It’s me! I know, right? It’s been a while, but then it’s been a year.

As most of you know, back in March my father passed away. So there’s that. My brother and I were already gearing up to sell my parent’s home as they’d moved into a terrific senior facility. April, May, June, and July were filled with new carpet, paint, drain backup, septic cleanouts, shoulder-high weeds, new roof, new fence, and on and on. The last day I spent at the house (supervising movers taking the last items to storage) the drains backed up a second time, but it was a very easy fix with a root cause of the house having been empty without water in the pipes for many months.

So it’s been a time.

My mother is doing very well in her new reality without her husband of 68 years, which is a testament to her resilience. A trait I do believe was fully passed on to both my brother and I!Read More