“Don’t take it personally, it happens to everybody and it’s been going on for years in music.”
Barbara Grier, Reflections
I can’t imagine my life not having intersected with Barbara Grier’s. Her impact on me is in my warp and weft, from the first lesbian books I read to conversations we shared, though they weren’t that many.
Talk, Love, Listen – Joan Nestle, in Her Own Words
It’s okay to be gay as long as you are invisible – true then. True now. Which is why reading Joan Nestle is as important today as it has ever been.
Are You Censoring Your Own Blog?
It’s true that filtering software may examine your site and decide it’s “adult,” but let the software make that decision; don’t do it to yourself!
I Stand with The T – Public Thread
I Stand with The T – Public Thread preserved from the implosion of Bird Site. Trans people are part of this cis lesbian’s queer family.


